gjish and jukov: thanks for your info
my specification is:
windows xp proffesional with service pack 2
active sync 4.1
office 2003
I've tried to delete the relationship, but it's not solve the problem.
the problem is my axim has detected by my computer, but as new hardware, and it's require some drivers. and then activesync not detect my axim, so do program for downgrade to wm 2003 se.
oh boy, i really need HELP