when i try to connect my axim and sync, my computer recognizes my partnership with axim, looks like it will sync and then suddenly stops and says not connected. error message says to check my settings and connections. i have uninstalled and reinstalled, soft reset. when i go to the mobile device on my desk top you can not tell i am connected, but on my sons computer when you click on the mobile device you can see the contents on my axim. I have opened all the firewall ports that microsoft recommends to if you are having problems with sync, but it still does not help. I am a complete novice to this stuff and need some major help. my life is on this axim and i really want to syc to my computer. could the usb cable or connection be bad?