Can you export the databases using ActiveSync (Tools>>Export Database Tables...). It should save them to your Profile (same folder used for ActiveSync backups). I can't get it to work; it returns "The system cannot open the device or file specified."
Menneisyys posted a link the other day to
dbExplorer, which claims to allow you to "
View,
Edit,
Copy,
Rename,
Delete, and
Transfer via IR
any system or application
database located in
Databases folder on the mobile device." No idea how much it costs, but there is a 30 day trial available.
Good luck!