I just got off the phone with dell cs again, they are going to send me a new x50v they are convinced it is a hardware problem
I tried tellingthem about activesync in the background and stuff.. but they don't seem to accept it. so I am getting another axim that they are going to walk through the upgrade with me... apparently an application developer that does some development on these things can't handle upgrading the rom...lol. But what are you going to do, they hold all the strings. I just hope that they finally figure out this is software and not hardware. OH well.
-Ir0nman