Check the listings of a "techie" retail site...
www.newegg.com comes to mind. They often list the "specs" of the cards in their descriptions.
Sometimes memory choices are like video card/PDA choices--everyone has had different experiences--so often we don't talk about specific brand name ( many are the same underneath the label anyway).
Read/write speeds are the measure of how "fast" the memory can perform an action. if the speed is, relatively speaking, slower, then if you use a program that does a lot of I/O to the card (e.g. some sort of Database or similar) then you should expect slower overall performance using say a 2 MB/s card over a 10 MB/s one. Remember too, the READ speed doesn't imply that the write speed is the same--many time they are not.
If you are just using the card for program storage/data storage, and not really dealing with a lot I/O in your programs, a slower card would likely work for you--and you get the added bonus of saving a couple of bucks.
Personally, I have the "slow" Sandisk 256, and it does what I need it to do, so I'm quite happy with it. I'd imagine that if I picked up one of their "Ultra" cards that I MIGHT notice a bit of a difference (especially since I store all my programs on the SD card, not internally) but so far, so good.
Good Luck!
Oh, one last thing, "cross posting" or putting the same/similar messages in more than one forum is usually considered a "bad thing" to do. Just pick the most appropriate forum and post it once there. Many of us hit the "view new posts" search anyway and scan the topics in all the forums to see if anything jumps out.