Originally posted by Raynne413 I have a comment about your girl problem. :) Tell your friends to leave her alone and quit asking. For one thing, if she has already said she doesn't, she is not likely to admit that she lied even if she does. Also, all it will do is make her feel like she is pushed into a corner and it will irritate her.
Thank you Raynne, I think your the first girl that responded, I need that, lol. Well, I did tell my friend to stop, I really didn't tell her to start, she just did, but I told her not to though. Any more ideas from girls?
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I don't know about this one--thought I'd jump in and give my perspective (on the girl issue....I think that's far more important).
Personally, I hate games. I think they're a waste of time--time that could be spent getting to know the other person better and finding out who they ARE. There's a big difference between who a person is and who a person IS. Right now, you really like the person you think you know, but really, how will you know until you can cut through all the BS and actually get to KNOW her.
Here's what I'd do. I've done this a couple of times and it's gone in both directions...sometimes in my favor, and sometimes, well....not.
First off....dude, you are being wayyyyyy too serious about this chick. You're just lookin' for a cool chick to hold hands with, watch some movies, eat some ice cream, and kiss on right? But you're coming off like you wanna marry the chick, have 2 babies right now, and raise them in the country. That freaks her out--bigtime. So, that's gotta end.
You two have already been through your share of games on this one, and I think it's time that they stop. If you can talk to her alone at some point I'd say something like this:
"Look, I know there's been a lot of back and forth on this and my friends talking to your friends and people really not knowing what's going on. I just want you to know--since it's just you and me right now, that I like you. I don't know if you like me or not, but I just thought I'd toss that out there. So, if you wanna go grab a movie or some food or something some night, gimme a call. If you don't, that's ok too. Ok? See ya."
Boom...that's it. It's out there...she knows, there's no friend "he said, she said" BS in the way, and there's no pressure on her. She can just say, "hmm" and walk away and think about it.
But like I said...that's just me. Some people like the way I deal with things, some people don't. I just think that drooling over her without it coming back to you, or playing Mr. Cool and making her come back to you, are both huge wastes of time. You've gotta show that you've got the nerve to approach her directly, and once you do that, the ball's in her court.
Later,
Monkey
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Originally posted by I Love My Ax Thank you Raynne, I think your the first girl that responded, I need that, lol. Well, I did tell my friend to stop, I really didn't tell her to start, she just did, but I told her not to though. Any more ideas from girls?
LOL My sense of romanticism is just fine as long as it is not waking me up at three in the morning. LOL Well, most of the time. :p Of course, my sense of romance kind of died with the death of my last relationship. :crooked:
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Hey Ax, just move on. Been there, done that; pledged my love to a "friend", and was rebuffed. Moved away, got engaged, got married. Same woman writes me long letter about how much she always loved me...
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