act like you don't care anymore. or better yet, really stop caring, at least about being more than just friends. the more you push things, the more she's gonna push you away. if she doesn't like you after all you've done, it aint gonna work out. sorry. maybe some morning she'll wake up and realize you're all she's ever wanted, but i'm afraid that usually only happends in the movies.
are you in high school? it sounds like it. once you get outta high school, you'll realize that this really doesn't matter a whole lot. high school relationships are usually the most unimportant in our entire lives, yet they're the ones we tend to stress over the most, kind of goofy isn't it. you'll do a helluvalotta stuff in your life and this girl will be but a blip in your entire exsistance. if you're not in high school, stop acting like you are. ;)
there was a girl in college that i thought was absolutely gorgeous. i treated her wonderfully and it did me absolutely no good. then one day i started dating another girl, and all of a sudden this chic who didn't want much to do with me acted like she wanted me every chance she could get. that's just the way women work. by the way, the girl i started dating is now my wife so everything worked out just fine.
don't sweat over this, move on. it's your life, get on with it. :D
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Many moons ago, a friend I rode motorcycles with was dating a girl, and wanted me to meet her sister. The deal was we were all going to go motorcycle riding. Well it rained. So he tried to get me to go to her house for the day. I really didn't feel like it, I thought the ride would be fun, but hey, I never met her and thought being stuck at her house all day would be uncomfortable, so I canceled.
A few years later he marries this girl, and I get to be the best man. I still never met her sister. At the wedding I could have kicked myself for not meeting her. So cute! I told my friend when I saw here I was going to marry her, but she never forgot that I ditched her that day, and told everyone she was going to give me a piece of her mind when she saw me (oh crap!).
Well, to make a long story short, we've been married for 23 years now :-)
Originally posted by star50fiveoh I care!.......The addition of the feminine view-point is always welcome in my book. There are so few women who care to "hold their own" in a forum such as this, that those who DO, should be welcomed with (virtual) open arms......which could be translated as open minds. Assuredly, there are many women out there who can hold their own here, but all-to-few who do.
And I echo frosty's post.........neither have I ever taken you for anything other than an ALIEN!
Gosh star, that was beautiful , even if you uh, still think I'm an alien!
And what good knowledge you have of great movies too!
Hey "I love my Ax"!
I'm kind of in the same situation. I was dating a girl 1 1/2 years and we broke up about 6 weeks ago. I first thought "Ok, I have to cope with it", but then I reallalized who I lost. I felt VERY bad almost two weeks and then talked to a good friend of mine who told me not to push her. I tried to "like" other girls, but it didn't work. I like her and only her!
The last week turned out to be just getting better and better for me. I started not to pay any attention to her. (Well, don't try and ignore her, that would probalbly make it worse!) She had fun with other guy (nothing serious). One guy tried to take her outside the bar and she did not want to although I thought she really liked him. That impressed me! I keep on not paying much attention to her. I have my fun, I dance and laugh with all my friends.
Now she is more and more looking at me. I don't look at her. My friends tell me! I tell you, girls want to proud of their boyfriends! They don't want someone who is constantly running after them. They don't want someone who always says "Yes" to everything. They want personality and a "balanced" relationship where you have to get along with your partner. They don't want someone who does everything they tell him. But this does not mean that you are not allowed to do something for her that you might not be really happy with. This is love.
Then if it is quite obvious that she does like you and you are "almost there", go and get a bouquet of roses (right word?) And tell you that you really like her. Women like it being romantic. Well, it makes you vulnarable. But if this does not help you. She does not like you honestly. Then move on!
Try to do other things. I know for myself it is SOO hard, but do it for you! Don't waste your time! Do something for YOU! You will meet the girl you were always looking for one day and then you might know why your highschool girl was not the right partner for you!
I hope this helps!
Fabian
(Sorry for my English!)
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