Hi again
In case anyone is looking for the same Hypertermial software as me.
Check out Ttl.exe at
http://www.bisque.com/ put TTL.EXE in search you will have to sign up but its free. I have tried Ttl out on my ECU and it worked first time no problems. I was using the serial lead from SERIALIO with no mods to the lead.
Another program is vxHpc from cambridge computer corporation have't tried it but has good reports from bevhoward.com along with some usfull information on serial stuff.
vxHpc is a 30 days evaluation with a 30$ licence free.
MY THANKS TO dooroo62 for steering me in that direction.
All I need now is to Live Read/Write to my device any help would be worthy