If the X3i with BT is working fine, why in God's name do you NEED to flash the ROM?!? If you're not having any problems with it, it's better to leave well enough alone since you're having so many problems locating the proper ROM and have no idea where the Axim originated from.
Where,
exactly, did you purchase this "second hand" Axim? eBay? Off a street corner? It wouldn't happen to be "hot" would it?
