I am so fed up with searching the fora and getting too many results.

I searched with different words, different spellings, different combinations, but the results are all the same. I can't search with all words typed included.
On my desktop, I have Activesync 4.2. My Axim X5 works the way it should.
My problem is that in the Activesync options: rules, I specifically checked that the items on the DESKTOP should be replaced by the items on my Axim.
When I sync and there is a conflict, the message box that pops up only gives me the options of combining (not what I want to do) or replacing the items on my Axim (not what I want to do.)
Obviously, since I can take my Axim with me, any changes I make should be sync'ed to the desktop and not the reverse.
How is this problem solved. (Short of purchasing a new Axim.)
Thank you.
Cas