Hey redsoxbaby,
Read the following thread for some ideas on accesories and apps that some of the forum users have outfitted their Axims with. My more recent post in that thread outlines the apps I find essential.
If you have any further questions just post em and I am sure either myself or somone else will be more than happy to answer.
As for your other questions:
1.) There are a number of options but in this case Dell's TruMobile card is a pretty good choice.
2.)In my humble opinion stay away from Sandisk and stick with Viking, Lexar, Smart Media or even PNY.
3.)CF card tends to be a bit cheaper than SD so it is a bit more economic to purchase a large CF ccard to be used with MP3's, Movie files, pictures, games, etc...
Since you also have a SD slot that space is better suited for installing aps to. This keeps the units memory free for running programs.
4.)Case is all a matter of preference, but there are a number of options out there. Look through this and other forums for some ideas and opinions from other memberes.
5.)Extra software? No - just Activestink! ;)
6.)See the top of this post. Again here is the link
http://www.aximsite.com/boards/showt...&threadid=5528
7.)again -
http://www.aximsite.com/boards/showt...&threadid=5528
Good luck