PLease help

ok here goes;
Dell Axim X5
pocket pc version 4.20.1081 (build 13100)
1996-2003
intel (R) pxa 255
Agere wireless LAN CF card
I can not for the love of anything get this card to function/operate in any way.
Do I need drivers ? (type & where can they be found)
How do I get these drivers off my laptop and onto the axim?
-asuuming I RUN them first on the laptop?
then do I copy & paste onto the Axim ; if so where which sub/folder ?
Please talk to me in Dummies language, i've no idea what Root files or the differance between .exe .cab etc
Everyone says this should work, but Ive no idea how??
Treat my knowlwdge as nil, I wont be offended, but I WILL be hugly greatful.
I have been trying for days, and getting nowhere, Im soo frustrated:azz
Please HELP thank you ..
