I know it's a long time after this post, but maybe someone else can use this info.
The big delay may be from Odyssey client if you are using that to connect wirelessly. Turn it off (when not using wireless) as follows:
- Click on Odyssey Client.
- Uncheck "Connect to"
- Click Settings->Exit.
As for the "unable to obtain..." message, setting a static IP address for the Remote-NDIS should eliminate this message.
- Click: Start->Settings->Connections tab->Network Card.
- Make sure the "My network card connects to" is set correctly.
- Click the Remote-NDIS Host and make the following settings:
- Check "Use specific IP address"
- Set IP address=169.254.2.1, Subnet mask=255.255.0.0, Default Gateway=169.254.2.2
- Click OK.
- Disconnect, soft reset, and reconnect.
One big caveat with this though: It will probably prevent you from being able to make a wireless connection. To get wireless to work again you will probably have to set to a 192.168.0.x address, or go back to DHCP.