I tried this tonight and was not successful. I did finally get ActiveSync 3.8 to work a little better by deleting
C:\WINDOWS\system32\rapi.dll after removing ActiveSync 4.1 (this particular file is in use during the uninstall and does
not get scheduled for removal after a reboot; ActiveSync 3.8 then refuses to overwrite it with an older version).
However, no matter what I tried, ActiveSync 3.8 would only let me connect as Guest. It would not prompt to set up a new partnership.
I finally gave up and went back to ActiveSync 4.1 which was quite happy to let me set up a partnership.
So I'm back in the same boat I was in before all this.
Mike