I'm the unhappy owner of a new Axim X51v

. I did a lot of research before buying, including this site of course, and decided I should go ahead anyway since it seemed I could work around the problems. I've encountered one problem I can't get rid of, though.
Basically, the Axim hangs while loading the Today screen, and I can't seem to find a way to skip those programs at least temporarily so I could disable them.
History:
In my first week, I'd installed some of the software from the Dell CD and everything went fine. I installed their 8-classic game pack and things still worked. Then I decided to buy and install some of the more "intrusive" software like CalliGrapher 8.3 and Omega One Battery Pack Pro 2.13a. That's when bad things happened.
After installing a couple of apps, including following the instructions to soft-reset when asked, I now have a persistent hang during the loading of the Today screen. I basically get to see the background, clock, bluetooth/network icons, and the title bar (Start, clock, etc) and that's it. I get that circular "in progress" loading "cursor" and it freezes, not accepting any buttons or taps. I tried countless soft-resets, but it generally ends the same way. The only other thing I sometimes get is an empty ActiveSync screen which looks as if it's ready for business, but does nothing (hang also). It also doesn't connect to my PC.
Question
Now, I'm wondering if there is any trick to bypass startup programs so I can get into my Axim and uninstall the recently installed ones and debug this. Yes, I'm hoping there is something kind of like holding SHIFT to disable StartUp programs in Windows :).
I'd love to avoid having to do a hard reset and start all over. It'll not only waste time, but I'll also lose some of my data which I don't think Activesync backs up.