I don't remember the exact wording but there are 2 different progresses:
total of 2 hard resets ( 1st is not considered a hard reset )
the upgrading/transfering also was 2 processes ...
/ the first one was to transfer the necessary files ( takes only a min. very quick )
after this quick process .. it will tell you to hard reset ... ignore if not successful ... this is where most people are puzzled and sounds like you are too !!
/ the second process ... which is the main one ( flashing of ROM ) ... could take anywhere from 10-30min.
if you haven't gone through the long 2nd process as above ... you are not successful with the upgrade ... why not take a look into the "about" menu ???
looking back ... it sounded like you have only completed 1/2 way ... I'm not sure what to tell you now ... all that could be advised has already been mentioned !
remember to keep device docked at all time !!