Hi wisnae me,
I'm fairly new here, too. You'll find many welcoming vets here who can help you. I don't know what is causing your first problem, but someone will be along to help with that.
I did experience the same dissatisfaction with the today screen listing of events. I didn't find a way to change it using the default software, but I've used a couple of programs recommended here. First I tried some free today-screen calendar improvemenents that I found using this wonderful listing:
http://www.aximsite.com/boards/showt...=best+freeware
Then, using Gigi's guide posted in the tutorials section, I sampled some other today screen plug-ins, and am currently delighted with Pocket Breeze; Amit Regev regularly responds to users here with codes offering a generous discount.
With a little exploration, you'll likely find just the right thing to make your Axim most useful. Enjoy